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Jannah: Just a wish or a Reality??

by Asma bint Shameem


When Fir’aun found out that his wife Aasiyah believed in Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta‘ala, instead of in him, he was furious! How could she? He ordered his guards to beat her. They tied her hands and feet, and beat her mercilessly in the scorching desert heat. She turned to Allah and prayed, “My Lord, build for me a home with You in Jannah and save me from Fir’aun and his deeds and save me from the Zaalimun ( wrong-doers and disbelievers in Allaah).” (Surah at-Tahreem:11).


That was her wish. To be in Jannah. And she got it.

It is said that when she said this, the sky opened for her and she saw her home in Jannah.

She smiled.

Frustrated and angry, the guards picked up a huge rock to crush her completely. But before they could do that, Allah took her soul and she became an example for all the believing men and women until the end of time.


Wishes, hopes and aspirations! Who doesn’t have them?


When you ask the average person what they wish for, some of them may wish for a million dollars, perhaps a fancy sports car and a house by the lake or even a trip to Disney Land.


But few of us remember the highest of humanly wishes. The greatest of wishes, the best of wishes, the loftiest of wishes. Yeah sure, it is there on our list, and we wish for it. But not with the fervor and passion that it deserves.


And what is that wish, after all?


It is a wish for Jannah; the pure, lofty abode for the believers.


The non-Muslims believe in wishing on a star, wishing on a birthday candle and in three wishes that a genie can ‘magically’ grant for you. But Alhamdulillaah, we are Muslims and we don’t need a star or a candle stuck on a cake to make a wish. In fact we don’t even need a genie in a bottle.

All we have to do is to submit to Allaah, believe in Him, do righteous deeds to the best of our ability, hoping for His Mercy while fearing His Wrath.


Allaah has told us in the Quraan:


“Whereas those who believe and do good deeds and humble themselves before their Lord, they are the companions of Paradise, and there they shall live for ever.” (Surah Hood: 23)


As Muslims we also know that achieving something is not just empty words. It is to wish for it in the heart, to use the tongue and make dua for it and to exert the appropriate effort in order to achieve it.

And Jannah is the loftiest of wishes.


But do we really, really wish for it? If so, what have we done to achieve it?

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How A Muslim Should Deal With Stress and Anxiety:

Stress is life. Stress is anything that causes mental, physical, or
spiritual tension. There is no running away from it. All that matters
is how you deal with it. This article does not deal with the factors
of stress, anxiety, and depression, nor is it a clinical advice. If
you feel depressed, you are not alone. It has been estimated that 75
to 90 percent of all visits to primary care physicians in America are
for stress-related problems. This is why it is wise to consult a
doctor if you are having physical symptoms of stress. However, here
are some tips that can help from a spiritual perspective.

Torture. Beatings. Loss of property. The death of loved ones. These were
just some of the enormous challenges the Muslims of Makkah faced in the
seventh century following their acceptance of Islam in fiercely tribal and
polytheistic Makkah.

Detention. Harassment. Beatings. Discrimination. Loss of Job. Profiling.
Hate Crimes. Constant media attention. Surveillance. These are just some of
the challenges Muslims in America today face, post-9/11. Like our
predecessors in Makkah, we have begun to face great stress, anxiety, and
pressure, more than ever in our recent history on this continent, although
Muslims who were brought here as slaves faced worse than what we can
even imagine.

1. Ask Him. He Listens: DU`A

Turn each anxiety, each fear and each concern into a Dua
(supplication). Look at it as another reason to submit to God and be
in Sajdah (prostration), during which you are closest to Allah. God
listens and already knows what is in your heart, but He wants you to
ask Him for what you want.

The Prophet said: Allah is angry with those who do not ask Him for anything
(Tirmidhi).

The Prophet once said that in prayer, he would find rest and relief
(Nasai). He would also regularly ask for God's forgiveness and remain
in prostration during prayer praising God (Tasbeeh) and asking for His
forgiveness (Bukhari).

Allah wants you to be specific. The Prophet advised us to ask Allah
for exactly what we want instead of making vague Duas. Dua is the
essence of worship (the Prophet as quoted in Tirmidhi).

"Call on your Lord with humility and in private: for Allah loveth not
those who trespass beyond bounds. Do not make mischief on the earth,
after it hath been set in order, but call on Him with fear. And
longing (in your hearts): for the mercy of Allah is (always) near to
those who do good" (Quran 7:55-56).

2. Tie your Camel: DO YOUR PART

One day Prophet Muhammad, peace and blessings be upon him, noticed a
Bedouin leaving his camel without tying it. He asked the Bedouin, "Why
don't you tie down your camel?" The Bedouin answered, "I put my trust
in Allah." The Prophet then said, "Tie your camel first, then put your
trust in Allah" (Tirmidhi).

Muslims must never become fatalistic. Although we know only Allah is
in control and that He has decreed all things, we are each responsible
for making the right choices and doing the right thing in all
situations of our lives. We must take action (link to planning
articles on SV). We must work to alleviate the hardships we, our
families and our communities face.

Ask yourself the following questions if you are worried about the
state of the world: are you part of the peace movement? Is your Masjid
part of the peace movement? Are you part of an interfaith group with
an agenda of peace and justice? Are you working with a group fighting
discrimination? If your answer is no, it is time that you sat down to
plan your share of time and money in finding solutions to the problems
you face.

"Verily Allah does not change men's condition unless they change their
inner selves" (Quran 13: 11).

Turn each worry into a Du`a and each Du`a into an action plan. That
will show your commitment to your request and will focus your energy
in the right direction.

3. Remember that human responsibility is limited

While we need to carry out our duty to the best of our abilities,
always remember that you don't control the outcome of events. Even the
Prophets did not control the outcome of their efforts. Some were
successful, others were not. Once you have done your duty, leave the
results to Allah. Regardless of the results of your efforts, you will
be rewarded for the part you have played.

However, never underestimate your abilities. Understand the concept of
Barakah (blessings from Allah) and remember that Allah can and Insha
Allah will expand them if you are sincerely exerting your energies for
the right path.

4. Leave the world behind you FIVE TIMES A DAY

Use the five daily prayers as a means to become more
Hereafter-oriented and less attached to this temporary world. Start
distancing yourself as soon as you hear Adhan, the call to prayer.
When you perform Wudu, keep repeating Shahada, the declaration of
faith, as water drops slip down your face, hands, arms, and hair. When
you stand ready to pray, mentally prepare yourself to leave this world
and all of its worries and stresses behind you.

Of course, Shaytan will try to distract you during prayer. But
whenever this happens, go back and remember Allah. The more you
return, the more Allah will reward you for it. Also, make sure your
Sajdas (prostrations) are talking Sajdas, in which you are really
connecting to God and seeking His Mercy, praising Him, and asking His
forgiveness. (link to Sajda article...ramadan page)

5. Seek help through SABR

Seek help through Sabr and Salat (Quran 2:45).

This instruction from Allah provides us with two critical tools that
can ease our worries and pain. Patience and prayer are two
oft-neglected stressbusters. Sabr is often translated as patience but
it is not just that. It includes self-control, perseverance,
endurance, and a focused struggle to achieve one's goal. Unlike
patience, which implies resignation, the concept of Sabr includes a
duty to remain steadfast to achieve your goals despite all odds.

Being patient gives us control in situations where we feel we have
little or no control. 'We cannot control what happens to us but we can
control our reaction to our circumstances' is the mantra of many
modern-day self-help books. Patience helps us keep our mind and
attitude towards our difficulties in check.

6. Excuse Me! You are Not Running the World, HE is.

It is important to remind ourselves that we don't control all the
variables in the world. God does. He is the Wise, the All-Knowing.
Sometimes our limited human faculties are not able to comprehend His
wisdom behind what happens to us and to others, but knowing that He is
in control and that as human beings we submit to His Will, enriches
our humanity and enhances our obedience (Uboodiah in Arabic) towards
him. Read the story of the encounter of Moses with the mysteries
behind God's decision (Quran: 18:60-82). Familiarize yourself with
God's 99 Names, which are also known as His Attributes. It is a
powerful way of knowing Him.

"God-there is no deity save Him, the Ever-Living, the Self-Subsistent
Fount of All being. Neither slumber overtakes Him, nor sleep. His is
all that is in the heavens and all that is on earth. Who is there that
could intercede with Him, unless it be by His leave? He knows all that
lies open before men and all that is hidden from them, whereas they
cannot attain to aught of His knowledge save that which He wills them
to attain. His eternal power overspreads the heavens and the earth,
and their upholding wearies Him not. And He alone is truly exalted,
tremendous." (Quran 2:255).

The Prophet recommended reading this verse, known as Ayat al kursi,
after each prayer, Allah's peace and blessings be upon him. Once Ali,
may Allah be pleased with him, approached the Prophet during a
difficult time and he found the Prophet in Sajda, where he kept
repeating "Ya Hayy Ya Qayyum", words which are part of this verse.

7. Birds Don't Carry their Food

Allah is al Razzaq (the Provider).

"How many are the creatures that carry not their own sustenance? It is
Allah Who feeds them and you, for He hears and knows all things (Quran
29:60)."

By reminding yourself that He is the Provider, you will remember that
getting a job or providing for your family in these economically and
politically challenging times, when Muslims are often the last to be
hired and the first to be fired, is in God's Hands, not yours. As
Allah says in the Quran:

"And He provides for him from (sources) he never could imagine. And if
anyone puts his trust in Allah, sufficient is (Allah) for him. For
Allah will surely accomplish His purpose. Verily, for all things has
Allah appointed a due proportion (Quran 65:3).

8. God controls Life and Death

If you fear for your physical safety and security, remember that only
Allah gives life and takes it back and, that He has appointed the time
for it. No one can harm you except if Allah wills. As He says in the
Quran:

"Wherever you are, death will find you out, even if you are in towers
built up strong and high!" (Quran 4:78).

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9. Remember that life is short

It's easy to get caught up in our own stress and anxiety. However, if
we remember that our life is short and temporary, and that the
everlasting life is in the Hereafter, this will put our worries in
perspective.

This belief in the transitory nature of the life of this world reminds
us that whatever difficulties, trials, anxieties, and grief we suffer
in this world are, Insha Allah, something we will only experience for
a short period of time. And more importantly, if we handle these tests
with patience, Allah will reward us for it.

10. Do Zikr, Allah, Allah!

"... without doubt in the remembrance (Zikr) of Allah do hearts find
tranquility"
(Quran 13:28).

If you commute, use your time in Zikr. Pick any Tasbeeh and do that
instead of listening to the radio or reading the newspaper. Maybe you
can divide it up between Zikr and planning. Personally, I recite the
Tasbeeh of "Subhana Allahe wa be hamdihi, subhan Allahil Azeem" 100
times as I drive. The Prophet taught us these two short phrases which
are easy to say but will weigh heavy on our scale of good deeds in the
Hereafter.

When your heart feels heavy with stress or grief, remember Allah and
surround yourself with His Zikr. Zikr refers to all forms of the
remembrance of Allah, including Salat, Tasbeeh, Tahmeed, Tahleel,
making supplication (Dua), and reading Quran.

"And your Lord says: 'Call on Me; I will answer your (prayer)..." (Quran 40:60)

By remembering Allah in the way He has taught us to, we are more
likely to gain acceptance of our prayers and His Mercy in times of
difficulty. We are communicating with the only One Who not only Hears
and Knows all, but Who can change our situation and give us the
patience to deal with our difficulties.

"Remember Me, and I shall remember you; be grateful to Me, and deny Me not"
(Quran 2:152).

11. Relying on Allah: Tawakkul

When you awaken in the morning, thank Allah for giving you life after
that short death called sleep. When you step out of your home, say 'in
Your Name Allah, I put my trust in Allah, and there is no power or
force except with Allah' (Bismillahi Tawakal to al Allah wa la hawla
wa la quwwata illa billah). At night, remember Allah, with His praises
on your lips.

Once you have established a plan you intend to follow through on to
deal with a specific issue or problem in your life, put your trust in
the most Wise and the All-Knowing.

"When you have taken a decision, put your trust in Allah" (Quran 3: 159).

Rely on Allah by constantly remembering Him throughout your day. When you
lay down to sleep, remember that sleep is death. That is why one of
the recommended supplications before going to sleep is "with Your
(Allah's) Name I die and become alive".

12. Connect with other human beings

You are not alone. Muslims are not alone. We are not suffering in
silence. There are millions of good people who are not Muslim with
beautiful hearts and minds. These are people who have supported us,
individually and collectively, post-9/11, by checking up on us and
making sure we are safe. These are individuals and organizations who
have spoken up in defense of Muslims as we endured harassment and
discrimination.

We must think of them, talk to them, connect with them, and pray for
them. Through our connections, we will break the chain of isolation
that leads to depression and anxiety.

13. Compare your dining table with that of those who don't have as
much as you do

The Prophet said: Whenever you see someone better than you in wealth,
face or figure, you should look at someone who is inferior to you in
these respects (so that you may thank Allah for His blessings)
(Bukhari, Muslim).

Next time you sit down to eat, eye the table carefully. Check out the
selection of food, the quality, the taste, the quantity, and then
think of the millions of others who don't have even half as much. The
Prophet's Hadith reminds us of this so that we can appreciate and
thank God for all that we have.

Also remember that the Prophet only encouraged us to compare ourselves
to others in two respects: in our Islamic knowledge and level of
belief in God (Deen). In these two areas, we should compare ourselves
with those who have more than what we do.

14. Say it Loud: Allahu Akbar, Allahu Akbar: Takbirat & Adhan

Find a corner of a lake, go out in the wilderness, or even stand on
your lawn at your home and call the Adhan with your heart. While
driving, instead of listening to the same news over and over again,
say Allahu Akbar as loudly as you can or as softly as you want, based
on your mood. Year ago, I remember calling Adhan on a Lake Michigan
shore in Chicago after sunset as the water gushed against my knees. I
was calling it for myself. There was no one else accept the waves
after waves of water with their symphony. It was relaxing and
meaningful. Allahu Akbar, Allahu Akbar.

15. Pray in congregation (Jamat)

Pray with other people instead of alone. If you can't pray all five
prayers in congregation, at least find one or two prayers you can pray
with others. If you are away, establish Jamat in your own family.
During the Prophet's time, even though the Muslims endured great
persecution, including physical beatings, they would sometimes meet on
the side of a mountain or valley and tried to pray together. This is a
great morale booster.

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16. How is your Imam's Dua?

Does the Imam at your local mosque make Dua silently or out loud? Ask
him to supplicate with the whole congregation. Suggest Duas for him to
make. Ask him to make Dua for other people.

17. Work for the Unity of Muslims

Bringing Muslims together will not only help the Muslims, but it will
also encourage you to focus your energies on something constructive
versus zeroing in on and consistently fretting about difficulties you
are going through.

Invite Muslims from other ethnic groups to your functions. Visit
Masjids other than yours in your city. When you meet a Muslim leader,
after thanking him for his efforts, ask him what he is doing for
Muslim unity. Ask Imams to make Dua for this. These are just small
ways you can help yourself and the Muslim community.

18. Sleep the way the Prophet slept

End your day on a positive note. Make Wudu, then think of your day.
Thank Allah for all the good things you accomplished, like Zikr and
Salat. Ask yourself what you did today to bring humanity together and
what you did to help Muslims become servants of humanity. For
everything positive, say Alhamdu lillah (Praise be to Allah). For
everything negative say Astaghfirullah wa atoobo ilayk (I seek Allah's
forgiveness and I turn to You [Allah]). Recite the last two chapters
of the Quran, thinking and praying as you turn on your right side with
your hand below your right cheek, the way the Prophet used to sleep.
Then close your day with the name of Allah on your tongue. Insha
Allah, you will have a good, restful night.

19. Begin the Day on a Positive Note

Get up early. Get up thanking God that He has given you another day.
Alhamdu lillahil lazi ahyana bada ma amatana, wa ilaihin Nushoor
(Praise be to Allah Who gave us life after death and unto Him will be
the return). Invest in an audio tape driven alarm clock so you can get
up to the melody of the Quran. Or Let Dawud Wharnsby's joyful notes
put you in a good mood. Sing along if you like. Develop your to do
list for the day if you didn't do it the night before. Begin with the
name of Allah, with Whose name nothing in the heavens or the earth can
hurt you. He is the Highest and the Greatest.

(Bismillahillazi la yazurru maa ismihi shaiun fil arze wa la fis
samae, wahuwal Alee ul Azeem).The Prophet used to say this after every
Fajr and Maghrib prayers.

20. Avoid Media Overexposure: Switch from News to Books

Don't spend too much time checking out the news on the radio,
television or internet. Spend more time reading good books and
journals. When you listen to the persistent barrage of bad news,
especially relating to Muslims nowadays, you feel not only depressed,
but powerless. Cut down media time to reduce your stress and anxiety.
It's important to know what's going on but not to an extent that it
ruins your day or your mood. (similarly, when you are in a sad mood,
refrain from wallowing and listening to sad songs)

21. Pray for Others to Heal Yourself.

The Prophet was always concerned about other people, Muslims and
non-Muslims, and would regularly pray for them. Praying for others
connects you with them and helps you understand their suffering. This
in itself has a healing component to it. The Prophet has said that
praying for someone who is not present increases love.

22. Make the Quran your Partner

Reading and listening to the Quran will help ******* our hearts and
our minds. Recite it out loud or in a low voice. Listen to it in the
car. When you are praying Nafl or extra prayers, pick it up and use it
to recite portions of the Quran you are not as familiar with.
Connecting to the Quran means connecting to God. Let it be a means to
heal your heart of stress and worries. Invest in different recordings
of the Quran and their translations.

"O humanity! There has come to you a direction from your Lord and a
cure for all [the ills] in men's hearts - and for those who believe, a
Guidance and a Mercy" (Quran 10:57).

23. Be thankful to Allah

"If you are grateful, I will give you more" (Quran 14:7).

Counting our blessings helps us not only be grateful for what we have,
but it also reminds us that we are so much better off than millions of
others, whether that is in terms of our health, family, financial
situation, or other aspects of our life. And being grateful for all we
have helps us maintain a positive attitude in the face of worries and
challenges we are facing almost daily.

24. Ideals: ONE STEP AT A TIME

Ideals are wonderful things to pursue. But do that gradually. Think,
prioritize, plan, and move forward. One step at a time.

25. EFFORTS not Results Count in the Eyes of Allah

Our success depends on our sincere efforts to the best of our
abilities. It is the mercy of Allah that He does not demand results,
Alhamdu lillah. He is happy if He finds us making our best sincere
effort. Thank you Allah!